This post was unplanned but I had to do this. I watched this particular video that’s been trending on Instagram for 2days now, about a lady who went down on her knees to propose to her boyfriend only for him to give her a side hug. The type of hug we Nigerians call the ‘deeper life hug’ and walked out on her. As if it’s the type of hug he gives her when wants to get that p*sy. incase you haven’t seen the video or you have seen it but want to see it again cos you think it’s funny and heartbreaking at the same time, watch it below!
I don’t know what it is with ladies proposing to men here and there, but I know it’s not something I wish to do! I won’t go on my sexy knees asking you to marry me while you stand there like a native fowl, trying to decide if you really want to spend the rest your life with me or nah. Cameras are everywhere and my village people are behind the scenes, watching to see if you gona disappoint me so they can laugh in Chinese and shake their wrinkled ass. No way!
That said, what I don’t understand is the reason people were slamming and blasting the lady over the proposal. That lady did not wake up one morning to propose to a stranger she was just meeting for the first time. They were apparently dating! She did what she did because she was proud of what they shared and wanted him to know that. She probably thought he meant well for her. She must have thought he loved her as much as she did him. She must have thought he would appreciate her bold move. Most of us have done worst things for love compared to what that lady did,yet we still go ahead to judge her?
I’m tired of people calling her a whore, a slut, a disgrace to womanhood and a desperate woman. Are we not the same people who go about preaching the ‘what a man can do, a woman can do it better’ gospel? What was wrong in her attempt to do what a man should have done biko? The most infuriating thing was how no one talked low of the man. Why did we choose to justify his cowardice or am i the only one who thought him a coward? Am i the only one who thought he was a heartless man incapable of love? My point is, even if he didn’t love her as much, it was still not enough to embarrass her! I know that lady made it a public proposal for both of them to trend for good, but the man obviously is a lover of controversies whose 2018 goal was to make it to becoming instagram news of the week and hell he did it. If not, he would just put on a charade, accepted the ring, hugged her,then he would have taken her out of that place to a more discreet place where he would talk senses into her then return the ring. That way, the whole episode would have been shorter and he would have helped the lady save some dignity for her future husband. But instead, he acted as if the lady was a total stranger who walked up to him in the mall to say ‘hello sir, marry me or I die’. Really? he acted like he never liked her one bit since they started dating . I can’t call that lady desperate because all she did was love that guy! I can’t call her desperate because she was a victim of an untrue love. If this didn’t happen, he would probably still be deceiving her by now. It was love that made her appear desperate. the same love that makes us do crazy things we never thought we’ll ever do. Since i watched that video yesterday, I haven’t stopped listening to Roxette’s ‘it must have been love’, and my prayer point has been;
- Dear lord! Any man that has been sent by my enemies to destroy my reputation and make me a laughing stock. Dear lord, cut his PS and shrink his balls, I repeat, cut his PS and crush his balls with your mighty hands in Jesus name, Amen!
- Dear Lord! Any man from the east,west, north or south who plans to date me for 10year before realising he’s not totally into me, oh lord let that resounding holy ghost fire that is released from mountain of fire churches everyday hit him back and front, left and right till he turns to coal…. Amen!
- Abbah Father! please let me not be a victim of public disgrace especially when the guy in question isn’t half as handsome as Bobrisky….Amen!
Some men are just wicked! SMH
Brothers and sister, what do you have to say about this?